I'm Nearing Half a Century,....NOT Nearing Ugly, Asexual, or Impotent

Especially by gay nightlife and gay media, being 30+ is treated like a death sentence. Well, as I turn 47 on March 31, 2018, this is my decree as to how I beg to differ and why.

Tease of a Forgetten Porn Scene's BTS

Every porn scene has a behind-the-scenes tale that often has some surprising facts in it. So this behind-the-scenes story is a tease from one of my least known porn movies, "All Out Assault". I'll give a more full story, with more shocking bits in my autobiography.

So let's start with how the pic to the right is not the DVD's cover. It almost was though. For the director posted pics of every sexual pairing from the movie in a cover pic for his followers to vote on. This pic of me and my scene partner Taino was in 1st place until the cover with Mario Ortiz and Mike Dreyden was posted. Analyzing how that came about might be something else to save for the autobiography. So moving on with today...

By the time the 2007 Gay Erotic Expo came around, I was on the verge of being done with the gay porn industry. I only went that year to give the industry one more chance to stop being the racist, bottom-demeaning, rape-inciting shit pit it was (and sadly still is) before pulling myself out of it.

I wrote a blog post expressing my disappointment of how little hope I left there with. For the only hope keeping me around longer was meeting a new porn company's director, and a stud working a booth at another new porn company.

The porn director of the 1st new company I saw, Knight Stick Films wound up being the first and only director to keep his promise of being in touch. Even Rafael Alencar didn't keep his promise, but the director of a lesser known company did. And not only that, but this director conducted his business in a way that I wanted - he wanted to put together guys with genuine attractions to each other. Not like most of studio-based porn today, which is nothing more than directors being pimps throwing together 2 or more prostitutes who are way more attracted to money than each other.

Luckily, Taino and myself did have an actual attraction. At first, when I saw Taino at a booth for the company Craig Sebastian, I thought he was doing what any porn actor working a booth did with patrons at the Gay Erotic Expo - being flirtatious to get customers. Just like I did my first time working the Gay Erotic Expo in 2005. But after my blog post about the 2007 expo, when I realized that Ben Marksman the director of "All Out Assault" paired me with Taino, and Taino's reaction to meeting me in person to sign the contracts, I realized that the attraction was mutual.

After signing the contracts to do "All Out Assault", me and Taino exchanged phone numbers so we could talk about each other's sexual likes and dislikes so our scene would flow more smoothly. He called me the next day while I was on my lunch break from working as a mail clerk at Kenyon & Kenyon. A lunch break during which I was shopping at the (no more) clothing store Daffy's. So yes, I was walking through Daffy's near the walls to avoid customers from hearing me talk about liking to suck dick, talk dirty, and be spanked (among other things) while fucking.

We also discussed Taino not liking to eat ass. I informed him that I overheard that in a conversation he had with the director the night we signed our contracts. So imagine my shock when Taino rimmed my ass like it was pair of chocolate smash-cakes for adults.


That's one behind the scenes tale for you. Here's another part that I've talked about before, but from here on out, I'll save the details for my autobiography --- The scene almost ended up having me as the top and Taino as the bottom. Enjoy.

Sex Toy Review: We-Vibe Verge

Before I start, my apologies to We-Vibe. For this review of their Verge cockring is long overdue in response to their gratitude for my Nude Dude Review of the We-Vibe Nova.

The Verge cockring by We-Vibe is a vibrating cockring primarily meant to stimulate a male-bodied person’s perineum (a.k.a. taint) during sex.

To accommodate most bodies for this purpose, the Verge is quite wide, and not as stretchy as its brother cockring from We-Vibe, the Pivot. However, if the person is thick enough, then the Verge may also help with the purpose most cockrings are made for. That purpose being to make the blood flowing into the penis to cause an erection not leave so easily.

The beauty of this cockring is that while it’s marketed primarily to stimulate the perineum, it can be turned and placed in different ways to make it stimulate more than just the taint. It can also stimulate other parts in that area instead of the taint on the wearer, and/or stimulate parts of the sex partner of the wearer.

  

Let’s look at different ways one can wear a Verge. All of which I have tried with a playmate and can guarantee the pleasure given.

This is the marketed way to wear the We-Vibe Verge:

Worn this way, it stimulates the base of the cock, and since it is so wide, it will rock back and forth during penetration or while the wearer is being ridden by their partner. With each pressure against it from either causing the vibration to hit more against the taint. During deeper penetrations, the wearer's partner may feel the vibration along the upper-half of their vaginal lips or anus, depending on which part and gender is embracing the wearer's member.

Wearing the We-Vibe Verge this way makes it great for both vaginal and anal sex:

For vaginal sex, the wearer will of course feel their chosen vibration around the penis and testicles. Meanwhile, the part shown in the above pic that in the marketed position stimulates the taint would in this case stimulate the clitoris.

Wearing the Verge this way for anal sex will give that same vibration to the crotch while vibrating near the bottom's anus like all of these positions. The addition to using the Verge in this way is that in sexual positions like (or similar to) doggy-style it can stimulate the bottom's ass crack, while in positions like missionary it can stimulate the bottom's taint instead of that of the wearer's.

This last position, like the initial one mentioned, is very much for the wearer's pleasure.

For wearing the Verge this way cups and tickles the wearer's testicles from behind during penetration, or while he's being ridden by his partner.


The We-Vibe Verge is USB rechargeable. It is made of silicone, so it is non-porous, and can be easily cleaned with soap and water or an anti-bacterial cleaner. With that it is also waterproof, so any of the ways to wear it mentioned or that you can think of can also be done in the tub or shower. The Verge also comes with 10 vibration patterns. The intensity of each pattern can be easily controlled by downloading the We-Connect app and syncing the Verge to it. Another plus to using the We-Connect app is that with it, you can create your own vibration pattern.

Like with my playmates, I live by the old saying "variety is the spice of life". With that said, for its variety in vibration patterns, ways in can be worn, and targets of stimulation, if you're not really looking for the traditional purpose for a cockring, then I definitely give a high rating to the We-Vibe Verge.